There are no specific references, websites or legal materials that we can point you to that would prepare you for such an undertaking.
Unless you have a significant legal background, pro se (do-it-yourself) representation is not a wise idea in cases requiring such substantial litigation.
Insurance companies hire experienced lawyers to handle litigation. We suggest that you do the same.
To find a qualified local attorney to help you with your case (a free service), please visit Standard Legal’s Attorney Find page and select the PERSONAL INJURY option.